Career Coaching For Lawyers
with Heather Moulder, J.D.
Success shouldn’t come at the expense of your well-being.
But right now, your legal career feels like it’s running you – leaving you overwhelmed, exhausted, and questioning what’s next. The good news? It doesn’t have to be this way.
✓ Redefine success on your terms.
✓ Prioritize what actually matters (guilt-free).
✓ Feel confident, focused, and in control.
From the outside looking in, your legal career is a success.
But there’s a disconnect between how others see you and how you actually feel.
Torn between ambition and self-care, worried balance isn’t compatible with a successful legal career.
Buried in calls, emails, and management headaches – you’re so consumed by daily busywork that the passion you once had for law feels gone.
Wishing you had bulletproof boundaries (while struggling to say “no” – even when you know you should).
Understanding leadership skills and emotional intelligence (EQ) are key to your next promotion (partner, GC, or beyond) – but where do you even start?
According to a recent ALM Survey:
50% of attorneys struggle with self-doubt and a lack of accomplishment – with 60% feeling overwhelmed and exhausted.
Statistics further show that over half of all practicing attorneys report feeling stressed and/or anxious most of the time.
Like most lawyers, you probably assumed the stress, anxiety, and overthinking would ease up as you climbed the proverbial career ladder.
Instead? It feels like you’re constantly being asked to do more, push harder, and give more of yourself – leaving you less in control and feeling less like yourself. And the thing is…
You didn’t choose this profession to be less.
It’s time for more clarity around what success means for you – and to get the tools + support to live it.
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If you’re tired of feeling like you are all over the place, work with Heather. Her targeted coaching will help you uncover your answers.
Heather’s cut-to-the-chase, no nonsense approach helped me quickly get to the root of why I was struggling (not just address symptoms) so that I could act on my outside-of-the-box ideas.
I now feel in control of my practice, and am doing more of what I love to do (which doesn’t feel like work).
Monica Narvaez
Associate GC, Loloi, Inc. / Of Counsel, McKim Legal
Whether you’re…
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Trying to create real balance as a lawyer.
Without settling for less in your career or sacrificing any piece of your personal life.
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Looking to improve EQ & leadership.
To confidently step into that law firm partnership or GC role you’ve been working toward.
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Ready for your next level of success.
But need clarity on what that looks like (without losing yourself in the process) – and how to get there.
Inside-Out Success Career Coaching For Lawyers Is Your Answer
A 3-part framework customized to your values, goals, and strengths. This means you’ll get clear on what you truly want (in both career and life) and receive the tools and support needed to make it happen.
Rewire
Use evidence-based tools to:
▶ Reframe limiting beliefs.
▶ Shift how you relate to yourself & others.
▶ Train your mind to be present & calm.
You’ll build EQ while asking “What’s possible?” instead of “What if I fail?”
Reconnect
Reconnect to your values & strengths to:
▶ Get clear on what you want (& why).
▶ Create a roadmap for success your way.
▶ Make decisions with confidence + clarity.
You’ll feel like yourself again – motivated, in control, and ready to take action.
Realign
Take intentional action to:
▶ Align life + career around your priorities.
▶ Confidently say “no” (with zero guilt).
▶ Measure success by input, not just output.
You’ll set stronger boundaries, reduce stress, and improve results – on your terms.
How This Translates Into Your Day-To-Day
(Real Results From Real Clients Like You)
Control of Your Time
Spend your time where it actually matters – with family, for strategic growth, and even (yes!) on hobbies.
Healthy Confidence
Trust your decisions, stop overthinking, and know you can handle whatever comes your way (even curveballs).
A Calm Mind
Master your emotions and regain mental clarity. The result? You feel calm, grounded, and in control.
Strong Boundaries
Set and enforce clear boundaries with confidence + grace – without the guilt.
Inspiring Leadership
Stand out & be noticed for your emotional intelligence and leadership skills.
Foster Self-Care
Prioritize your well-being with sustainable, flexible habits that actually fit your life.
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Heather will put you on a fast-track out of an overthinking, negative mindset.
She pulled things out of me that I’d never before put to words and provided me with a framework for solving my own problems.
Instead of agonizing over decisions again and again, I now have confidence in my decisions because I’m able to align them around my priorities without feeling guilty about it. And I know that I have the tools to course correct whenever needed.
My formerly glass is half-empty mindset isn’t just half-full, it’s overflowing! And I’m doing better at work while putting in less hours (even have more time for business development).
Somer Hayes
Shareholder, Greenberg Traurig LLP
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Heather will challenge you to see situations – and your actions – in a new light.
Heather’s nonjudgmental nature allowed me to openly share my struggles so that I could receive better feedback and then organize my ideas into actionable plans for achieving my goals.
She is perfect for attorneys who want someone who understands their challenges and can help them get to the next level without losing themselves in the process.
Jim Chester
Partner, Klemchuk LLP
Inside-Out Success
Career Coaching For Lawyers
The Details
Expert support from a trained lawyer career coach and lawyer
You’ll receive personal 1:1 support from a trained career coach who is also an attorney, and understands how to navigate the high-pressure, often high-stakes legal profession of law firms and corporate leadership.
12 individual coaching sessions with Heather
You’ll get a combo pack of lawyer career coaching, leadership coaching, mindset coaching, and life coaching based on what you need. Because you’re a whole person (who can’t be compartmentalized). This type of lawyer career coaching will challenge your thinking, give you a fresh perspective, unlock your inner confidence, and improve your interpersonal skills.
Proprietary assessments and science-backed tools
You’ll have access to Heather’s proprietary assessments, tools and resources designed to increase self-awareness, unlock deeper insights, build psychological resilience and identify opportunities for growth.
Develop new habits for success
Learn practical strategies for how to create healthy habits and thrive post-coaching. Examples of how this looks in life… Letting go of perfectionism, befriending your inner critic and creating strong boundaries (you feel good about enforcing).
Become your own inner coach
My goal is for you to move on without me. You’ll learn how to get yourself from problem to solution and seamlessly tackle whatever roadblocks life puts in front of you without overthinking or over-stressing.
Investment: 3,250
Coaching with Heather is worth it. To make a mindset shift you need someone who is going to challenge your current way of thinking, and Heather does that. She tells the truth even when it’s not what you want to hear.
When I first came to Heather, I was having a hard time juggling work and family commitments while building my practice. My to-do list was overwhelming and I was frustrated that I was living in a way that didn’t match up with what was important to me.
The biggest change through coaching was how I prioritized. I learned that priorities change over time and that setting boundaries is an essential part of prioritizing.
Heather helped me understand that there isn’t a quick time management fix to becoming more balanced, everyone has to make trade-offs (that is life), and it is on me to decide what to prioritize and what to let go of. The key is to be intentional.
Thanks to our work together, I’m finally going in the direction I want to go.
Thank you, Heather, for helping me recognize how my mind works inside-out.
Your ability to break down my fear and anxiety helped me take the necessary (even if uncomfortable) steps to achieve my goals.
Thinking of working with Heather? Do it.
You won’t regret it and it’s totally worth it. Heather is intentional, laser-focused and nurturing at the same time.
Thanks to Heather I am the happiest I have ever been in my legal career.
Heather is a curious and attentive listener. She asks the right questions, listening carefully to responses so as to properly frame the next question in a way that guides her clients to make their own choices.
I was initially concerned that coaching would put me into a circle of aimless questions, leaving me to second-guess myself. That’s not how it works with Heather. Her questions guide me every step of the way to being decisive and confident in my decisions. I never feel alone.
Imagine knowing – without a doubt – that you’re on the right path.
Confident in your decisions. Motivated to take action. Aligned with what matters most to you.
Hey there, I’m Heather Moulder.
After 18+ years in BigLaw, I walked away from a multi-million-dollar book of business to start my coaching and consulting practice.
Which means I’m not like most lawyer coaches – many of whom either never practiced law or barely did. I’ve been where you are. I know how it feels. And I’m on a mission to help you build success from the inside-out.
The problem?
As a lawyer, you’re trained to plan for the worst and avoid risk. If left unchecked, that mindset bleeds into your entire life – fueling stress, overthinking, and anxiety.
The Good News? It doesn’t have to be this way.
My job is to help you redefine success on your terms, and give you the support + tools to go out and live it.
Serving clients at & worked with:
If you’re ready for change and willing to try a new approach, you’ll get tremendous, life-changing benefits from working with Heather.
Heather is direct, supportive and results-driven. She’s in pursuit of your deepest truth so that you can gain clarity about what’s truly important to you and then make the changes you want (like I did!).
Heather is deeply insightful and empathetic, making her an extremely valuable partner in the process for figuring out your right answers.
Heather helped me to understand that balance is a daily practice, i.e., making real choices daily, weekly, and monthly, not an elusive destination.
Heather is perfect for working parents struggling to do it all who want tangible solutions for creating a more balanced life. She has a special talent for making people’s lives better!
When I first came to Heather, I didn’t know how to say no and my inner voice had become very unkind.
Heather quickly identified the root causes for why I felt so stressed and gave me practical strategies to overcome them. The #1 thing I learned from Heather is how to say no without feeling guilty about it.
I’m now able to carve out time for myself, relax with my family and still work full-time.
Thanks to Heather’s coaching and hands-on tips, I got my long-coveted GC position.
Heather helped me not only improve my leadership and communication skills but also realize I wasn’t giving myself enough credit for my skills and abilities.
This boosted my self-confidence, which was transformative.
The thing I love most about working with Heather is that she is empathetic and meets you where you are at BUT she doesn’t let you stay there.
Heather provides relevant, industry-specific coaching and advice that’s thoughtful, transparent and honest.
She is perfect for lawyers who have reached a point where they question their purpose, and wonder whether their values align with their current work and work environment.
Heather’s techniques are especially powerful when making difficult, real-world decisions. She teaches the tools for how to make these decisions with confidence.
Ready for clarity, confidence, and control (in both law and life)?
Got Questions? Here are answers to the most common questions…
How Big Is The Time Commitment (I'm Already So Busy)?
I’m known for my blunt honesty, and so here’s the truth…
You need time + space to figure out what you truly want and go make it happen. Which means there is an obvious time commitment.
The more time you put in the more you’ll get out of your investment.
But please note: you’ll be building the foundational skills and habits you need that will save you time and energy in the future. And it won’t take up nearly as much time as you think.
Most of the “work” happens between sessions within your mind, as you figure things out and implement strategies we’ve discussed on our calls.
Our meetings last about 45-50 minutes in length.
NOTE: all sessions must be used within 12 months of your purchase date.
Why a 12-session commitment (can I choose something less)?
Making big changes like this don’t happen overnight. You need time to dig in, discover, be curious and try things out. You also need time to develop new habits (which also don’t happen overnight).
The 12-session commitment also sets your mentality up for the work ahead (knowing it’s a commitment of 6+ months to get to where you want to be).
But take a look at the testimonials above to see why this commitment is worth it.
What Results Can I Expect?
While I can’t guarantee specific results, I’m 100% committed to you and will always bring my best to our coaching.
That being said, most clients begin to experience results quickly (after all, we’ll initially clarify what you want + how to make it happen in a way you’ve never had before). And it’s not uncommon to experience big changes after only a couple of sessions.
The truth is that there’s no magic bullet. Your results are dependent on your willingness to be 100% open and honest, and the work you put in.
What's Your Refund Policy?
No one has ever requested a refund and I don’t expect you to. That’s why we must chat first. It helps:
- Me determine whether (and how) I can help you,
- You to get your questions answered, and
- Both of us to effectively determine whether partnering together is a fit.
But should you decide – for whatever reason – to cancel after getting started I do have a refund policy (which you’ll find here).
What's The Process For How This Works?
Book a call with Heather here to chat about what’s best for you at this time + get your questions answered.
If we both determine to move forward, you’ll receive an invoice and your coaching contract. Once you’ve paid in full and signed your contract, we’ll get started.
What About Confidentiality (Especially If My Employer Pays)?
I take my clients’ privacy and confidentiality seriously, and am subject to the ICF Code of Ethics (which can be found here).
Before we begin working together, we’ll sign a coaching agreement that contains specific provisions around confidentiality (that will apply to our arrangement regardless of who pays).